let the finger linger
a guide to how best to please a woman with your digits
By: Post Editor
Issue date: 12/2/04 Section: Features
Giving a good hand job to a girl is definitely an art form. The area is so sensitive and no two girls are alike when it comes to what they need to get off. Even if your oral-sex technique isn't up to par, any sort of mouth-to-genital contact feels at least decent. It's not the same with hand jobs. If you don't know how to finger a girl properly, you could cause outright pain and a total loss of her sex drive. So why bother? If done properly, getting fingered feels amazing. And if you take the time to learn how to do it well, your partner will be extremely impressed.
Before you do anything, make sure your hands are clean and well-groomed. Wash them, as it's possible to spread some STDs through manual contact. Don't use any sort of no-wash antibacterial liquids because they can cause irritation. Make sure your nails are clipped short and filed smooth. Do not cut or file your nails directly before manually stimulating your woman because they will still be relatively sharp. Make sure your cuticles are clean and there are no scraggly ends hanging off anywhere.
Learning how to administer the finger well requires one to have basic familiarity with female sexuality and genitalia. Girls who hook up with girls have an advantage here, but guys are often relatively clueless. To begin with, women typically take longer to warm up than men do. Take your time and tease her. Before you even head to her genitals, try stimulating the whole area. Stroke her clothed stomach, run your finger along and inside her waistband and rub her ass. Then feel along her thighs, paying particularly close attention to the inner parts. Squeeze them, and trace tantalizing circles up to her crotch. Make her really want it before you even get her clothes off.
Unlike the penis, the most sensitive areas of a woman's genitals (namely the clitoris) usually can't handle forceful, direct stimulation. Whereas most girls' problems with giving hand jobs lie in the fact that they don't use enough force, most guys' problems arise from using too much force. A woman's genitals are extremely sensitive and must be handled with care. The clitoris is chock-full of nerve endings, so it's especially sensitive.
Before you do anything, make sure your hands are clean and well-groomed. Wash them, as it's possible to spread some STDs through manual contact. Don't use any sort of no-wash antibacterial liquids because they can cause irritation. Make sure your nails are clipped short and filed smooth. Do not cut or file your nails directly before manually stimulating your woman because they will still be relatively sharp. Make sure your cuticles are clean and there are no scraggly ends hanging off anywhere.
Learning how to administer the finger well requires one to have basic familiarity with female sexuality and genitalia. Girls who hook up with girls have an advantage here, but guys are often relatively clueless. To begin with, women typically take longer to warm up than men do. Take your time and tease her. Before you even head to her genitals, try stimulating the whole area. Stroke her clothed stomach, run your finger along and inside her waistband and rub her ass. Then feel along her thighs, paying particularly close attention to the inner parts. Squeeze them, and trace tantalizing circles up to her crotch. Make her really want it before you even get her clothes off.
Unlike the penis, the most sensitive areas of a woman's genitals (namely the clitoris) usually can't handle forceful, direct stimulation. Whereas most girls' problems with giving hand jobs lie in the fact that they don't use enough force, most guys' problems arise from using too much force. A woman's genitals are extremely sensitive and must be handled with care. The clitoris is chock-full of nerve endings, so it's especially sensitive.